Son Says Dad’s Loan Turned Into Harassment Horror
Blood may be thicker than water, but it sure doesn’t stretch like cash.
At 8 p.m., a man dialed up the police claiming his own father was hounding him like a bill collector — all over a $500 loan. According to the frustrated son, dear old dad had forked over five Benjamins and now won’t stop showing up at his house demanding payback.
The man told police his father wasn’t just calling — he was popping up in person, bothering both him and his roommate. But when officers showed up, they said it wasn’t a criminal matter and advised the son that if the harassment continued, he might consider filing for a protection order.
👪 WHEN FAMILY LOANS GO SOUR
Experts say borrowing from family can turn toxic fast if expectations aren’t clear. A simple act of kindness can quickly unravel into resentment, ruined relationships, and in this case — a police report.
Here’s how to avoid a family finance fiasco:
- Put it in writing. Even if it feels awkward, create a basic loan agreement.
- Be clear about repayment. Discuss dates, amounts, and consequences upfront.
- Don’t loan what you can’t afford to lose. If you’d resent not getting it back, reconsider giving it at all.
- Consider it a gift. If you truly want to help — and don’t need repayment — say so.
Because as this family found out, when it comes to mixing money with blood ties, the interest can come in the form of drama, stress, and late-night visits from Dad.