While they likely never tire of hearing the words “I love you,” sometimes we want a way to show it rather than tell. Luckily, there’s no shortage of small ways to silently express your love. Some of the easiest and most effective methods are spending time together, accomplishing small tasks for them, sharing a gift, and rethinking how you spend your time.
Spend Some Genuine Time Together
One of the best ways to show how you feel is to stay available: living in the same town or home isn’t enough. To express your love, try suggesting new activities and together-time. When you are together, spend the time doing something wholesome. Have meaningful conversations and make a point to set aside distractions, like electronics.
Get a Gift You Can Share
There’s no shortage of good gift opportunities and ideas to take advantage of throughout the year. Generally, though, it’s best to save the unique gifts for a special occasion—stow the jewelry or hobby ideas for their birthday or the holiday season.
The rest of the year is a better time to choose subtle gifts intended as catalysts to spend time together. Pick out an awesome gift basket full of delicious hors d’oeuvres or treats as an excuse for a romantic dinner. Gift them a new movie or a few months of a new streaming service to hang out and watch some films.
Do Something Without Them Asking (Again)
If you need small ways to silently express your love, try listening to your significant other. Many of us vocalize a need for help without realizing that’s what we’re doing. Asking for a favor, small task, or complaint is likely a signal that your loved one is feeling alone and overwhelmed in their daily doings.
Lend them a hand and show you care by accomplishing the little things they ask you to do—the first time rather than the second, third, or fourth. While procrastination is most people’s preference, try to set aside your desire to sit still when it comes to your loved one’s small needs.