Covered in Maggots, Refusing Help—What Can You Do in a Case Like This?
A heartbreaking call to 911 turned into a difficult situation for first responders after a concerned family member reported an elderly relative living in deplorable conditions in a Portsmouth home.
The relative told dispatchers the woman had been lying on a soiled bed pad that hadn’t been washed since last October, and was covered in maggots and filth. EMS rushed to the home around 4 pm, and what they found was disturbing enough that they immediately called in Portsmouth Police to assist.
The Scene: “Terrible Condition”
Officers described the inside of the home as trashed and filthy, with garbage strewn everywhere. Despite the grim surroundings, the elderly woman they came to check on appeared alert and coherent. She told officers she was “just fine,” didn’t want any help, and insisted she was happy with her situation.
With no signs of cognitive impairment and no immediate danger, police and medics had no legal grounds to force her into care.
👵 Elder in Need – But No Help Wanted
Even though officers couldn’t take action, medics did notify Adult Protective Services, who may be able to step in with further assessment and support.
This incident highlights a harsh reality: You can’t force someone to accept help—even when the situation looks dire. If a person is of sound mind and not in immediate danger, the law protects their right to live how they choose, even in conditions most would find unacceptable.
What Can You Do If You See Something Similar?
If you suspect an elderly or vulnerable person is living in unsafe conditions, here are some steps you can take:
- Call 911 if there’s an emergency or immediate health threat.
- Contact Adult Protective Services (APS) in your county. You can file a confidential report.
- Document your concerns — keep notes or photos (if safe to do so) to help APS evaluate the situation.
- Talk to them kindly. A gentle conversation might help them see the need for help.
- Check in regularly or ask a trusted neighbor to help keep an eye on them.
Sometimes, change starts with just one concerned voice. Don’t be afraid to speak up—but remember, respect and empathy go a long way, especially when dealing with people who may not want help.
