Two separate reports made to the County Sheriff’s Office in recent days highlight a disturbing but tragically common problem: sexual abuse that occurs within families and trusted circles. These incidents, both deeply troubling, illustrate just how abuse can hide in plain sight — and how essential it is to speak up, report, and protect victims.
Child Reports Abuse by Relative
In one case, a woman came to the Lawrence County Sheriff’s Office to report sexual abuse against a child in her custody. She had been contacted by a trusted member of the child’s church, after the child disclosed a disturbing incident from three years earlier. At the age of 12, the girl says her great uncle exposed himself and forced her to touch his genitals.
The child further reported that even now, the man continues to make inappropriate sexual comments, causing her ongoing distress. Deputies took an official report, and the case is under investigation.
Adult Victim Confronts Stepfather’s Behavior
In a separate case, deputies responded after a woman said her stepfather sexually assaulted her in their home. The woman told officers she had found the man unconscious from drinking — a behavior he was supposed to be in treatment for. When she checked to see if he was okay, she said he accidentally touched her breast, then later grabbed her intentionally and demanded that she take off her clothes and have sex with him.
The man, reportedly intoxicated and aggressive when police arrived, also made threats toward officers and was arrested. Deputies booked him into the Lawrence County Jail.
Understanding the Problem
Sexual abuse within families — sometimes referred to as intrafamilial abuse — is one of the most difficult forms of abuse to address. Victims often experience confusion, shame, fear of not being believed, or concern about breaking up their family. Many incidents go unreported for years — or forever.
But research and experience show that early intervention and support can make a profound difference in a survivor’s life.
What to Do If You Suspect or Experience Abuse
- Report Immediately
Even if the abuse happened years ago, you can still report it to police or child protective services. Reporting can prevent future harm and start the process of justice and healing.
- Listen and Believe
If someone discloses abuse to you — especially a child — listen carefully and without judgment. Do not pressure them for details. Let professionals take it from there.
- Seek Professional Support
Trained counselors and therapists can help victims process trauma and begin healing. Victims of abuse often carry the emotional weight for years without support.
- Prioritize Safety
Ensure the victim is not left alone with the alleged abuser. In some cases, emergency custody arrangements or restraining orders may be necessary.
- Know the Signs
Red flags for abuse can include behavioral changes, unexplained anxiety, fear around specific people, withdrawal, sleep disturbances, or regression in children.
If You Need Help
📞 National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
Confidential, 24/7 support for survivors and families.
📞 Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)
Available 24/7 to provide resources, reporting guidance, and crisis support.
These stories are difficult — but they’re important. Abuse often thrives in silence and secrecy. Speaking out and seeking justice takes courage. If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, you are not alone, and help is available.
