Investigating Conflicting Stories in a Family at a Breaking Point
A family disturbance call quickly turned into a case of conflicting accounts, emotional distress, and a deeper issue—how difficult it can be for families to get mental health help for children in crisis.
On arrival, officers were met by a distressed mother and her boyfriend, who claimed that her son had become unruly and violent. According to them, the boy had flipped a table, yelled in anger over a perceived slight, and grabbed a pencil in a threatening manner. Fearing for their safety, the boyfriend said he had restrained the boy by holding his arms and taking him to the ground.
Conflicting Stories Emerge
When officers spoke with the boy, he gave a different version of events. He claimed he was simply upset that his younger brother had been given pizza while he had been ignored. He insisted that he had tried to explain his feelings to his mother, but she refused to listen.
The physical altercation left a cut on the boy’s face near his eye, which his mother attributed to his glasses being knocked off when he was restrained. The boyfriend denied hurting him beyond simply holding him back.
A Family at a Breaking Point
The mother admitted that she no longer felt safe having her son in the home and insisted she needed help immediately. She believed his behavior was escalating and out of control. However, when officers explained that they could not remove the boy from the home unless he posed an immediate danger to himself or others, she became frustrated and desperate for a solution.
EMS workers on the scene suggested taking the child for a mental health evaluation, which the mother ultimately agreed to. No charges were filed.
The Challenge of Finding Help for Children in Crisis
This incident highlights a growing issue—how difficult it is for families to get proper mental health care for children who need intervention. Parents often find themselves trapped in a cycle of escalating behavior and frustration with limited access to immediate help.
Many families struggle with:
✔ Long wait times for therapy and psychiatric evaluations
✔ Lack of affordable mental health resources
✔ Fear of judgment for seeking help
✔ Not knowing where to turn
What to Do If Your Child is in Crisis
If your child is showing signs of aggression, emotional distress, or self-harm, there are steps you can take:
🔹 Reach out to a mental health professional – Contact a therapist, psychiatrist, or crisis counselor. Schools often have counselors who can help connect families with resources.
🔹 Call a crisis hotline – The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (988) or local mental health hotlines can provide immediate support.
🔹 Ask about emergency evaluations – Many hospitals have psychiatric crisis units that can assess whether a child needs inpatient care.
🔹 Create a safety plan – Work with professionals to identify triggers, coping strategies, and support systems.
Looking Ahead
For this family, the immediate crisis was resolved, but the deeper challenges remain. Officers often find themselves playing the role of mental health responders, despite not being trained therapists. This case serves as a stark reminder of the urgent need for better mental health resources for children and the families who are struggling to help them.
