A father is raising serious concerns about his daughter’s well-being after what he claims was a disturbing episode of discipline gone too far — at the hands of her grandmother.
The father met with deputies at the Lawrence County Sheriff’s Office to file an official report alleging child abuse during a recent visit with the children’s maternal grandmother. The incident reportedly occurred while the children were staying with their mother, who shares custody with the father under a current court order.
According to the father, his daughter confided in him on June 13th — shortly after he picked up the children from their mother’s South Point home — and told him that while her mom was away for two to three days, the children were left under the care of their grandmother. During that time, the girl claims grandma placed her hand over her mouth so forcefully that she had trouble breathing and couldn’t speak. The child also alleged that her grandmother struck her on the arms, legs, and buttocks.
Though the father told police he did not observe any visible bruises or injuries at the time, he was disturbed enough by the disclosure to report the incident and alert authorities. When deputies attempted to interview the child in her father’s presence, she became shy and refused to speak about the alleged abuse.
👵 When Does “Old-School” Discipline Cross the Line?
In generations past, physical discipline like spanking was often considered normal — even expected. But today, our understanding of child development and trauma has evolved, and what was once called “tough love” might now be seen as emotional or physical abuse.
Restraining a child’s ability to breathe or speak, even in an attempt to quiet them, can have serious physical and psychological effects and may be considered criminal. Similarly, hitting — especially with enough force to leave marks — can result in charges, even when the intent was disciplinary.
⚖️ What’s Next in This Case?
At the moment, there are:
- No open Children Services investigations
- No visible injuries reported
- No criminal charges filed yet
But that could change. The report has been forwarded to Lawrence County Detectives and Children Services for further review. The final custody and parenting arrangements between the divorcing parents are expected to be determined in court next month.
👨👩👧👦 What Can Parents and Guardians Do?
- Communicate Clearly: If someone else is watching your kids — especially a relative — make sure they understand your boundaries when it comes to discipline.
- Educate, Don’t Intimidate: Hitting, shouting, or using physical restraint can do long-term harm and may backfire.
- Listen to Kids: If a child confides in you about something uncomfortable, take it seriously — even if you don’t see marks.
- Report if in Doubt: It’s not overreacting to get authorities involved. Better safe than sorry.
This case raises difficult questions: Where’s the line between firm discipline and abuse? And what happens when generations clash over what’s acceptable when raising kids?
In a world where parenting norms have changed dramatically, one thing remains true — children deserve to feel safe, seen, and heard. Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or guardian, how we treat kids matters more than ever.
If you suspect a child is being mistreated, contact your local law enforcement or call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453).
