A disturbing incident at a local high school has brought renewed attention to the serious problem of sexual harassment in schools—an issue that often goes unreported or unresolved until it escalates into something dangerous.
While working a security detail, a law enforcement officer was called to the assistant principal’s office regarding a female student’s complaint of sexual harassment and aggravated menacing. According to the report, the student and her father told the officer that a male classmate had made repeated sexually explicit and violent remarks to her during class.
Among the statements the girl reported were deeply inappropriate and threatening comments, including that he was going to “*** on her,” told her to “**** his ****,” said “I wanna touch your ****,” and made threatening statements such as “I will shoot you” and “I’m gonna blast you.”
The student said these comments occurred during class time, though the school stated there were no witnesses who could corroborate the report, and the teacher had not previously noted any issues between the two students.
The girl’s father expressed immediate concern for his daughter’s safety, asking if the students would have further contact. School officials indicated it was unlikely the two would encounter each other during the remainder of the school year. The family was also advised they had the option to seek a restraining order through the court system for additional protection.
A written statement from the victim was collected and included in the official incident report, which was then forwarded for further review by the appropriate authorities.
A Wake-Up Call: Sexual Harassment in Schools Is Real—and Often Ignored
What happened in this case is not an isolated incident. Across the country, students—particularly girls—are subject to verbal abuse, sexual harassment, and even threats of violence during what should be safe, structured school hours. Too often, these complaints are minimized, brushed aside, or lost in bureaucratic processes.
But what students say matters. And when threats or harassment are reported, swift, serious action must follow.
What Parents Should Do If Their Child Reports Harassment
If your child reports being harassed at school—especially if the harassment includes sexual or violent content—take the following steps immediately:
- Listen and Document: Believe your child. Write down everything they say, using their exact words when possible, including names, dates, times, and any witnesses.
- Report to the School: Notify school administrators in writing and request a formal investigation. Ask for written documentation of the school’s response.
- Contact Law Enforcement: If the harassment includes threats of violence or sexually explicit language, file a police report.
- Seek Protection: In cases involving fear of ongoing contact, parents can seek a restraining order through the court system.
- Request Separation: Ask the school to make schedule adjustments or place students in different classes or lunch periods to avoid contact.
- Support Your Child: Harassment is traumatic. Offer emotional support, counseling if needed, and ongoing check-ins to make sure your child feels safe and heard.
Schools Must Do More
Sexual harassment isn’t “just talk,” and it’s never “kids being kids.” It’s a form of violence that causes emotional harm, interferes with learning, and can escalate if ignored. Schools have a legal and moral duty to respond appropriately to these reports—no matter how uncomfortable the subject matter may be.
This latest incident serves as a reminder that silence helps no one. Parents, students, and schools must work together to confront the problem head-on—and create a learning environment where every child feels safe.
