What started as a simple roommate arrangement turned into a domestic drama when police were called to break up a messy love triangle—and a very awkward living situation.
According to police, a married couple had agreed to let a 40-something college student stay with them for the semester. But things took a turn when the husband allegedly began an affair with the tenant. Now, the couple wants the woman out of the house, but it turns out evicting a roommate isn’t as simple as changing the locks.
You Can’t Just Kick Them Out
Officers informed the couple that once someone establishes residency, even without a formal lease, you can’t just tell them to leave. In Ohio and many other states, doing so without going through the legal process could result in civil liability—or even charges for unlawful eviction.
So What Can You Do?
If you’re stuck living with someone you’d rather not, here are some ways to legally and peacefully part ways:
- File for a formal eviction: If the person pays rent or has established tenancy, you’ll likely need to file for eviction through your local court. This takes time, but it’s the only ironclad legal route.
- Offer incentives to leave: Sometimes, a little cash or help finding another place can motivate someone to move out voluntarily. It might sting your wallet, but it’s often faster and less stressful than going to court.
- Set clear boundaries: If the person hasn’t officially established residency, act fast. Don’t accept rent, mail, or allow them to stay for extended periods. Once they’re a legal tenant, your options narrow.
- Mediation: If things haven’t gone nuclear, consider having a neutral third party help both sides reach an agreement.
The Fallout
In this case, police helped mediate the tense situation, but the unwanted roommate remained in the home—for now. The couple was advised on their legal options for removal through court, but it’s safe to say the living arrangement won’t survive the semester.
The takeaway? Whether it’s a friend, family member, or a fling—think twice before inviting someone to stay long-term. Because once they’re in, getting them out isn’t just personal… it’s legal.
